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Stress by wife' Sexual need

Among different types of stress, I like to discuss a stress to husbands due to their wife sexual need.

If wife has excessive lust for sex, which create tension to husband. She wants to reach orgasm all the times and everyday. When husband likes to sleep after tiresome work, wife is not allowing him to sleep. Wife' sexual interest is high enough to consider Husband as a sex machine.

Such wife can not tolerate if her sex machine fails some time. She show her frustration by throwing harsh words and angry face to her husband. She does not know the truth that is appreciation, co-operation and adjustment can increase the 'timing' of husband in bed.

The best Viagra is wife's appreciation and admiration towards her husband.

This type of wife's excessive involvement in sex creates a tension or fear in husband. Husband starts to fear as his wife may commit adultery to satisfy her lust. Though she is true to her husband, this kind of fear may erupt if this kind of situation prolonged continuously.

So, due to the fear and keeping his wife's chastity with him, husband will work hard. He becomes sex machine. Even he comes from office so tire, he engages in sex if his wife wants it. He knows he need sleep and take rest. But to satisfy his wife he 'work' again. Yes it is a work now.

Husband is not moving by his interest or natural passion. Husband is 'working out' because of a fear that how his wife will react if he neglect her call.

If sex becomes a duty/burden to a husband or if husband is always thinking about satisfying his wife in bed, then sex is not a pleasure to husband. Sex becomes a stress to husband.

A psychological sexual impotency or 'no interest in sex' will emerge at this stage. If this state continued, soon husband will forget the experiences and pleasures of natural feelings. Soon he has to purchase Viagra. 'Natural Viagra' is in the life-style, self-management, and stress management.

Do not think Husband's sex life is gone away. If he has interest with a woman other than his wife, he can realize that he is still energetic in sex. Because he is moving by interest and without commitment or duty to satisfy anybody. He is not 'working out' there but having 'intercourse' because of his interest.

How to handle the situation? How to live with natural sex feelings? How to keep sex as pleasure and not a stress?

First thing is kill the fear. Eradicate the tension. If you do not have money that will make things worse than if you do not have sex. Sleep well; take rest to keep your health well to work forever but not for having sex alone.

Do not afraid that your wife may commit adultery if you neglect here call often.

There are hundreds of reasons behind adultery. Adultery is not a planned activity always. It is an 'Emotional hijack'. When emotions are in charge - law, principles, sin, good, rules and regulations can not stand in front of it. Even if you keep satisfying your wife, there is no guarantee that she will not commit adultery. If you are not satisfying your wife, there is no rule that she has to commit adultery. We need separate article to for discussing adultery. Adultery in life is like 'accident in road'. Accident happens to both good and bad drivers. That is all for now.

Sex needs certain time, space, and mood to enjoy well. It should evolve like flower blossoming. Let it happen rather than try it or plan it. It is not a duty. You can not enjoy your duty all the time. It is a natural gift. So let it happens rather than force it.

When you are not interested or unable to have sex, do not have it. When you like to have it, have it. If you follow this, soon you will realize your natural sex feeling rise.

So stop 'working in sex'. Have sex for your pleasure. Neglect her sex call when you have work or you are sleepy or you need to have rest. Have sex when you like to have and when you are able to have. 'Husband' is one of the roles you play in life. There are other roles; Father, brother, friend, relative, reader, writer, soldier, and etc. Enjoy all the aspects in your life.

Live without fear. Accept life as it is.

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