I think author of this blog married earlier and thats why he is telling that after 30 interest in sex will become to reducing... is their any research or any statistical record that shows the result ... with out the statistical analysis we cant comment on any things. writing blog shows a democracyism..but not means that he made some research and providing the data :) so anybody provides some statistical data then I would be interested in this subject..
Marriage age of Indian IT Males
Marriage age of Indian IT industry males are increasing day by day. Many of my friends who are all still unmarried at their 30ies. Those who are earning good salary under the age of 28 or 25 not ready to marry till crossing 30+. I have two contradictory feeling about them. I am jealous at them as well as pity at them. Jealous: Having long (young/old) bachelor life without any commitments. Free birds. Weekends are paradise. Till getting married always a center of attraction among females and parents having daughter waiting to be get married. They have sound personal economy. Freedom to spend and buy. Pity: Male Virgin till 30+. Of half their life they do not have sex pleasure. Sex energy is always high during below twenties. When mind is full of pressures and commitment the appetite for sex will get reduced. I pity at them for not having sex for 30+. Even somebody may have pre-marital sex affairs here and there, but they can not be counted as comfortable and relaxed sex. pre-marital affairs happens when suppressed sex becomes stress and find its own way to blow out. This is applicable more than male to females. In the name of 'career' many girls skip their marriage during twenties. When reaching pre30(-30) they urge to get married before post30(30+). If the average sex life is 25-30 years, 1/3 of this period is sacrificed in the name of 'Career' or 'settlement'. This is applicable to who do not have chance/courage for pre-marital experience. Indian middle class men can not think of marriage at 20 because of Indian Educational system. Indian education systems normally matures at the age of 20(average). So till completing graduation, one can not pursue a full time carrier. After completing graduation one has to spend next to 3 to 5 years to find out his carrier, then make himself sound in economy or confirming his earning potential for the next two or three decades. Age 30 may be right as per Indian middle class society expectation of a male's eligibility for marriage and Maturity model of education system and carrier concepts. Related Articles |
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"Sex energy is always high during below twenties."
Though you are correct, I can not accept this fully. Within 6 hours after a baby born, that baby can understand the sexual feelings. But he/she could not reveal that. Sexual feeling are more in the age of 16 to 22. Once they get job or in good position, their thoughts would be changed. They spend their own money. So, they have some duties. They are starting the real life. But they wont think that sex is waste in life. They are very clear of sexual thoughts that sex is just a part of life. Thats all.
By -An IT Person.