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Cure Sexual thoughts
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It is natural that we will have sexual thoughts until we divert your mind to divinity, education, extra curricular activities. If you are active in a sports or engage in music or drawing or writing or any other activity which you like most, you may not have sex thoughts. Even you do not try to stop, it will stop without your effort.

Most important thing is never watch TV if you want to avoid having sex thoughts. Even NEWS channels showing porno videos nowadays to increase their TRB rating.

Avoid discussions and gossips about sex topics. This will stir you sex feelings slowly. You listen what you speak before the second person listens it.

Never read special coverage or investigation reports about sex scams in magazines and news papers.

Above all, do not try to control sex thoughts, the more you control, it comes more strongly. Simply divert your mind.

Most important thing is, avoid the persons, who seduce you in any way.

If you really want to cure sex thoughts, do not read below.

Don't you ever think, why do we have sex thoughts? is it really bad or sin to have sex thoughts?

Here are some hypotheses about having sex thoughts.

It is wrong to have sex thoughts for few people. Especially woman having sex thoughts are 'considered' too bad. Even, many woman may think the same.

Do the sex thoughts,need to be cured? or it is natural to have sex thoughts.

Having sex thoughts is unnatural. It may be sin or may not be sin. Having sex thoughts is not a way how nature intended to be. We do not think of any biological need or dream about it.

For example: Do anybody have fantasy thoughts about, urination or shitting. Do anybody have thoughts or dream about how they will die. Do we have dream about watching movies.

We do not have dreams for such things. Because we are doing them. In practical, we are exercising those actions.

Another example: A person, is not getting a job after graduation. He is trying for several years, but no result. Sometime, he may have a fantasy dream like, he is doing well in the interview, get white color job, get good salary and etc.

Here the context is different.

Well, there are biological needs and psychological needs. Those needs have to be exercised. If any of such needs are not met out in action for a long time, it becomes a stress and ventilating in thoughts.

For example: If your immediate boss is harassing you for long time. You are not able to resist it and not able to change the job. Soon, you will have fantasy dreams/thoughts like you beat him or toss him. Through your dreams/thoughts, your emotions are ventilated.

If you have expressed your anger, you will not have dreams or thoughts like dumping your boss.

Sex is a strong biological need like ungry. Until, it reaches your mind, it is physical stress. When it reaches the mind, it becomes formidable force and focus of mind.